There is a lot that we can try to do in our own strength, whether it be our relationships, parenthood or even our careers. We have to know that far more can get done and accomplished with the strength of God. He will empower you through any difficult season, rather you put yourself there or God purpose for you to be there. He will give you grace and strength to persevere.
Sometimes we want to navigate situations ourselves, and I mean right in the moment we make an impulse decision because we are running on our emotions, you know that thing that rises up when you are annoyed, frustrated, and have had enough. Have you ever just taken a moment and asked, “What is God’s mind concerning this situation?” God will reveal it to you that you may operate in His discernment and wisdom.
It does require you to trust him and relinquish control and I’m not just saying in your mind. I mean speak it out of your mouth and be specific on what you are taking your hands off of that God’s perfect will can be done. If it is something that you got into rightfully knowing it may not be the best decision, repent of the disobedience and ask God to renew your mind, and clean your heart and place you on the right path He has for you.
I’m reminded of the verse in Jeremiah, 29:11, “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you.”
God knows exactly what He is doing in your life and the timing in which to reveal and release. You have to put your trust in Him and allow Him to lead you to all truth. It is also important to pour into yourself in these seasons as there may be things you face that you may not understand or burden your heart. You have to give it to God and have faith that it is working for you.
In these seasons it is imperative to draw close to God and cultivate intimacy with him. Allowing him to groom and mold you.
It is important to do the things that make you happy, whether that be traveling, spending time with people who have your best interest at heart, gardening, reading, or whatever it is that helps you to radiate your light even more.
Also, ensure you are taking care of your well-being, make sure you are eating and staying hydrated, getting your exercise in on schedule, skin care, hair, nails, whatever it is that is in your health and beauty maintenance.
It is easy to want to let yourself go when you feel like the world is coming for you, but be vigilant in prayer, take care of your temple and trust God. There is purpose in His plan. Be Blessed!